Question
Anyone else feel guilty about masturbating?
I know its supposed to be normal and healthy and practically everyone does it, but I still feel guilty and ashamed when Ive done it.
Answer
Why does it make you feel guilty? You are in control of your body and have a right to understand how it works and discover what gives you pleasure. It may be different of the urge was uncontrollable and you were indulging at inappropriate moments, but if its in moderation and you find it fulfills a need, then its nothing at all unusual and is something women have been doing for millennia. brIf you have some religious aversion to it, then its a matter of trying to understand why that belief system requires you to abstain and deciding for yourself whether your interpretation fo your beliefs supports that. You ARE allowed to think for yourself, and make decisions about your own body for yourself.brIf you cannot enjoy your own body, how could you ever guide a lover to give you maximum pleasure? Dont feel bad please, you have done nothing wrong.